I have spent 21 years in HR — at Wargaming, Preply, iDeals, StarLightMedia, Alfa-Bank and PeopleForce — and the lesson is the same everywhere: a title does not make you an HR leader — a set of competencies does.
This is not another list of soft skills. It is about the HR professional as a leader of the function and a partner of the business: the competency model I use, what the CEO expects from HR, a free HR leadership self-assessment, and first steps you can copy for each weak area.
What are HR leadership competencies?
HR leadership competencies are the abilities that separate a leader of the HR function from a strong HR expert. An expert knows how to run hiring, onboarding or compensation well. A leader decides what HR should do for the business, links it to the business goals, measures the result and gets invited into decisions while they can still be changed.
Soft skills are the base for any HR job (see Soft Skills for HR: Competencies Needed for Effective Performance). Leadership competencies sit on top: you can be excellent with people and still be called in only to formalise decisions already made.
The quickest way to see the difference is to compare two HR leaders:
- The lost HR leader reacts to requests, measures activity, and HR lives separately from the business.
- The strong HR leader sets the agenda, measures the result, and HR is built into the business goals.
The HR leadership competency model: four roles and three competencies
I use a model with two layers. The first layer is the four roles of HR from Dave Ulrich, the author of the idea of HR as a business partner. The second layer is three competencies that distinguish a director from everyone else in HR.
Layer 1. Four HR roles. Any HR function has to play all four at the same time. Many HR people see themselves only in the last two.
- Strategic partner. Focus: business goals. Horizon: a year and longer. Result: an HR strategy prepared for the business strategy.
- Change agent. Focus: transformation and culture. Horizon: a project, often up to a year. Result: changes the company actually accepted — for example, a new goal-setting system that is really used.
- Administrative expert. Focus: efficiency of the function. Horizon: a quarter. Result: processes that work without failures — for example, hiring requests closed within the agreed time.
- Employee advocate. Focus: engagement. Horizon: daily work. Result: people stay, and their voice is heard in the business.
Layer 2. Three leader competencies. What experts often lack. For each, the phrase you hear from a real HR leader:
- Business acumen. Reads the profit and loss statement, sees the company’s problems and opportunities, and explains HR through revenue and costs. The phrase: “This will cut 15 days off the time to fill.”
- Working with data. Every decision has a metric, not “I think so” or “someone thinks so”. The phrase: “Here is the number, here is the conclusion.”
- Influence. You are invited to the discussion before the decision is made. The phrase: “Let me join the sales plan discussion.” The warning signal: you are invited only to formalise what has already been decided.
How to assess your HR leadership skills
A self-assessment works like scales: without them you are guessing, with them you see which way to move.
Use one scale for all seven items, and rate by facts from recent months — what you actually did, not what you can do in theory:
- 1 — I do not do it. Not a single example in recent months.
- 2 — I try. Separate attempts, the result is random.
- 3 — I do it, but not every time. It works, but not always and not with everyone.
- 4 — I do it confidently. Regularly, with a clear result.
- 5 — I build it in others. I teach it to my team and to managers.
Then three rules:
- One example per score. A score without an example is a wish, not an assessment.
- Work on the three lowest scores. Scores of 1–2 go into work, 3 needs to be consolidated, 4–5 can be delegated and taught to others.
- One step per area. Do not try to close everything at once: for each growth area write one first step for the next two weeks. If two areas have the same score, start with the one linked to the bigger gap in business expectations — more on that below.
What does the CEO expect from an HR leader?
Business pays not for HR processes but for their result. What a CEO expects from HR comes down to four things:
- close people risks before they hit the goals;
- have the team for the strategy — on time;
- measure the effect of HR in money and metrics, not in activities;
- lead change, not slow it down.
Between what the business expects and what it sees there is often a perception gap. The business expects decisions based on data, partnership, strategy and accountability for the result. What it often sees is paperwork for decisions already made, a service that handles requests, and accountability for the process. It is closed by actions, not by waiting.
You can measure it. For each expectation, give two scores from 1 to 5: how important it is to the business and how HR does it now. Gap = importance − now. A gap of 2 or more goes into work and into your next conversation with the CEO. A gap of 1 stays in view. Zero or less means the expectation is covered. The self-assessment above does this calculation for you.
One CEO question, two HR answers
Here is a situation you can use to test yourself or your team. The CEO says: “In six months we double the team. Can we handle it?”
- The reactive HR leader starts searching when the vacancies arrive, then explains why the deadlines were missed and blames the market.
- The strong HR leader brings a plan in advance: the hiring funnel, the timeline, the budget and the risks, calculated — and takes responsibility for the result.
How to develop HR leadership competencies: first steps you can copy
Development starts with one concrete step per weak area. Here are two-week first steps, one per item; take the ones that match your three lowest scores:
- Strategic partner: ask the CEO for the company goals for next year and show on one page which people are needed for them, and by when. Bring it to your next one-to-one.
- Change agent: for a change running now, write down who resists and why, hold three conversations and agree on a pilot in one team.
- Administrative expert: make one process that still needs your manual work faster or simpler.
- Employee advocate: take survey results back to every team, not only to the CEO.
- Business acumen: rewrite one budget request in the language of revenue and costs instead of a list of activities.
- Working with data: before your next people decision, collect the numbers behind it. For open vacancies: time to fill, offers made, offers declined. Show them with one conclusion.
- Influence: ask to join one management discussion before the decision — the sales plan, the budget, a new office. If HR is not invited to leadership meetings in your company, ask whether you can attend.
If you want to see how these competencies look in the HR business partner role, read What Is an HR Business Partner (HRBP)? Role, Responsibilities and Skills.
Mistakes that keep HR from becoming a leader
- Mistaking the title for the role. “HR director” in the contract does not make you one. The role starts when you work on the business, not only on HR operations.
- Measuring activity, not result. Number of trainings, number of surveys, number of hires — the business does not pay for these.
- Waiting to be invited. If you hear about decisions after they are made, influence is the competency to work on. Ask to be in the room.
- Self-assessment without evidence. Scores based on feelings produce a plan based on feelings. One example per score.
One question to take into your next week: are you invited before the decision is made, or after?
I teach the whole HR leader role — strategy, metrics, the HR function, budget and change — in the HR Director Course.